Can my baby’s father be with me?

Fathers are very welcome to be present at their baby’s birth, whether he or she is born vaginally or by cesarean. For many couples, the first sight of their infant is an unforgettable moment to share.

If the baby is born by cesarean, the father will be asked to wait outside the operating room while the mother is prepared for surgery. When ready, he will be escorted into the operating room and seated by the mother’s head. Many mothers find it comforting to hear the father’s voice and hold his hand. We will be glad to answer any questions for you during the cesarean section. You will see the baby as soon as it is born, and you will be able to hold your baby as soon as he or she has been checked by pediatricians.

Ordinarily, the baby’s father is not present when general anesthesia is used so that we can give undivided attention to the mother’s anesthetic.

Fathers need not feel pressure to come into the operating room. Do not come unless you want to. On the other hand, there is no reason to be worried about feeling dizzy or having a weak stomach; you do not have to watch any of the operation. If you wish to leave at any time, a nurse will be glad to escort you back to the waiting area and later bring the baby out to you.